Thursday, 7 June 2007

wolf in sheeps clothing~

I feel so bad~

I feel so bad knowing that i was witness to a great fiasco and i did nothing to stop it
I felt really weird when this junior of mine was parading around his 2 'girl' friends almost alternatingly. Now i didn't know the junior (2 batches my junior) personally, all i knew that he drove a sports car to school and is heavily loaded with cash. Great for him i thought~

He even introduced a 'friend' from Singapore though she's actually originally from Indonesia during one of our badminton practice. Hmmm what did she see in this big fat guy was all that i could think of at the time.All this while he was cheating on his girlfriend in the UK who is also studying medicine while keeping the Singapore/Indonesian gf in the dark as well~
WTF?

I don't know any of these parties personally but i deem this as an attack on all females in general.

Someone should really go expose this big liar.
But you know what, what goes around comes around.
He may have gotten away this time but he'll get his just deserts in due time.

If you know him personally pls treat him as you deem fit~

Tell him you know~

Tell him you're disgusted~

Tell his poor gf (singapore/indonesian) if she still doesn't know~

This is the full story from the blog of a very brave girl.


This guy cheated on his gf with his ex for almost a year . And now he's telling ppl the gf dumped him long long time ago for whatever reasons but not bcos he cheated? How twisted. It had just been less than a month from today to be precise. The reason? --->

--> he actually initiated a relationship again with his ex while he was with his gf of 3 years.


Though i wouldn't say their relationship was good during the 3 years coz the bf actually cheated once before and had other scandals going on with other girl. They had their ups and downs like any other couples but with more dramas ...


Fine, they broke up coz of all the dramas but a few months later the bf went after the gf again claiming he realized his mistakes, swore that he was a changed man.


So, there he went emailing the gf's friends asking for advice and convincing them he should be given a chance. From then, he sent flowers and gifts every months to the gf.


He wrote such sweet emails saying how he prayed to God every night that how much he wanted them to work. In the end the gf was convinced and accepted him since she loved him. (The gf lives in UK and it was a Long Distance Relationship then)


Since then, they were fine and super sweet where the gf spent time with him during summer holidays and he actually flew to the UK to spend time with her for a month!


She was so touched and even thought giving up her job offers in UK and go back to Singapore to work so that they could be closer and build a stronger relationship as she alwiz knew LDR was difficult to maintain.


Everything went well and smooth for both of them. (Btw, both of them are medical students)


After a month later after he flew back to Malaysia/Singapore, she found that her bf was acting cold and distant, he wasn't very supportive like his usual self.


So they argued and went for a break. How sad, he didn't even call her for weeks and she thought to herself this was not normal. Later, she finally gathered lotsa information from her various sources, she found out the bf has been cheating for almost a year.


This happened while he was trying to get back his gf in UK, He initiated a relationship with his ex who was in Singapore.


Come to think of it, it is very smart coz none of his med school friends knew about her existence since she is from a different community or else they might inform his gf. And smartly, only his Singaporean high school friends knew about his ex being his gf in Singapore.

Therefore, under his ex's impression, the gf was the "affair woman".

How depressing...


Yes, there are more to it, before he flew to UK, he lied saying he needed to go Taiwan with his Dad for some function but instead he went honeymoon with his ex to Jakarta. Well, there were witnesses and other evidence. What a small small world. I am sure he told his Malaysian friends he went to "Taiwan" too.


Anyhow, the deluded gf believed him and wished him safe trip and prayed for his journey to go to the so-called "Taiwan"..sobs..how stupid? Where he was actually going with another woman..=(



Of course, when he left for UK for his elective here, he told the ex he needed to do his medical elective in a town which is the next to where the gf lived. And he even lied to her that he was staying with a guy friend. But the truth was, he was staying with the gf, the elective was even arranged by the gf under her own consultant.


So during some weekends, the couple went to London and Paris.
Guess what he told the ex? this is really funny u know..


he said he needed to do ON-CALL and



Patient Home Visit in another hospital far away during weekends ,therefore he won't able to contact his ex.


.......Seriously, an elective medical student does not do on-call and patient home visit in a hospital posting in another town especially during

weekends . Other than that, it is also a TOTALLY different Trust and you don't go to other trust hospitals when you are just a foreign elective medical student attached for a short time of period.

Plus only GP does home visit in UK. -__-

At least that's what i know about the system in UK. Hmm...

Well, a least it is good enough for the ex since she didnt know about the medical field that much. She would just believed whatever he said to her, in fact might be very impressed with her doctor-to-be "bf".


What hurts the gf most is, everynight he corresponded with the ex while he was in the UK , telling her a different story and yet still able to be sleeping next to his gf who truly believed he had changed.


She was all happy and overjoyed to have him there. Never in a million years, she thought he would cheat on her again. This is really sad...


Can you imagine when someone you trusted,given all your love to him, treat u this way?? Even if there were any problems between them, both parties should sit down and talk things over and he should not just cheat behind her back.

It is just so unfair to the gf. it's cruel....

Where's the respect for her? This is so wrong in any angle u look at it. How could he not see it?


Well, after the break the bf never bothered to talk to the gf anymore, no calls, no emails, nothing from him.


Perhaps he has settled for the ex in singapore who is still so cluesless abou the whole situation. Poor thing.


I mean she is not wrong coz she is a victim too but can you imagine if she were to find out? I mean she must have doubted to go out with him again if he were the one who cheated at the first place when he was with her. God knows what really happened between both of them at the first place right? Perhaps it was the guy who dumped her first.



Okay, days passed, ppl in his med school knew that he broke up with his gf coz he gladly told ppl that they have broken up and made it as if it was the gf's fault who dumped him and he was the victim.



Despite knowing that the gf had actually found out about his cheating, but had choose to keep silence about it. I don't know, perhaps he wanted some sympathy and go out with another gal within his med school. I believe he would tell a different story to his fellow friends.


Finally, one day he found out that this gf already knew about his sinful act.


He didn't call, didn't explain himself, but he tried to delete whatsoever

evidence he got that he was with the gf , fearing other ppl/the other gal

in singapore might find out. He feared his "SEcRET" will be out.


He feared other ppl might tell the other gal and lose her as well. How foolish? Why commit at the first place knowing that it will be out in the air one day? How long does he think can he play this masquerade party for?

She even knew, he was daring enough to bring her back to his house in Seremban even with his housemates around though he was very discreet about it... Hmm, there are so much more to it that she knew... i believed there were other women involved too besides the other two girls he cheated throughout these years...

She might be clouded but at least she's not now...







......And this is the story of a girl who gave it all and convinced that things will go well as long both parties are committed and determined...

She was so so wrong.. Finally she understood the meaning of "Once a cheater, always a cheater".....


3 comments:

shar-sharz said...

this guy is really very bad.
he does this as though girls don't
have feelings,and played behind the girlfriend's back.
sometimes,guys are really hard to trust,especially those rich guys,
or the quite good looking guys.
sighh..sometimes also depends on our luck.maybe,in order to find our
true love,we must actually go through some bad love experience, and heart breaking moments?

anyway,you take care.see you around
and happy working =]

saltvinegar said...

yeah~
so steer clear of these guys~
never take them back

and make them suffer if u can~

hahahaha

tho it din happen to me i'm still fuming he he

mei said...

This is just unaccepatable. Unfortunately, such thing does exist and getting more and more common. Just pity the girls who still don't know about the truth. LDR is indeed hard for the girl, and it's too easy for the guy to CHEAT! His sinful acts just made my blood-boiled..

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